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I have been humiliated...

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I have been humiliated...

by my own *ucking mother!

from JoeUser Forums
I have just received my most humiliating moment tonight after my soccer game.

Alex was there, and at the end of the game…. I went over and hugged him (who wouldn’t, he came all the way to our game to watch us get our ass kicked!) Well, I walked over and buried my face in his neck, which I basically always do when I hug him. Mom YELLS out loud, “PDA!!!” and goes, “Get away from him.” We walked back to the car arguing about that whole ordeal. I was basically holding back tears from my mom’s uncaring, cruel, and needless to say “bitchy” self. The minute I saw Jenn’s van, I walked up to it and started crying on her shoulder. She said that we would talk about it tomorrow, so I feel better knowing I have SOMEONE who understands.

I cried the whole way home and that is where I leave off now. I have concluded that my mom is ACTING like a stupid whore ass bitch. (Notice how I put ACTING, because she is NOT one personally.) I mean, all I did was hug him… what in the fuck is wrong with that? I am so angry, I could vomit…

Is she the one being irrational, or am I?

Sam
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Reply #26 from JoeUser Forums Top
Zoologist03 You can talk the talk but have you ever walked the walk? (you may be too young to be familiar with that statement ask your mom after you "cuss her out" since that is who you are)


You know after reading this over and over again....it seems that you are really wholeheartedly trying to piss me off for some reason....I'm 16 if you must know so get out your big book of stereotypes and start getting them ready....I'm not sure what's up with your "parents are always right attitude" but you might need an explanation....the cussing would only refer to an intense, unfair situation to ME and only ME and I don't encourage that kind of behaviour for others. I'm quite familiar with that little saying by the way....so quit being condescending....it doesn't improve your character at all....

~Zoo
Reply #27 from JoeUser Forums Top
I'm sorry angela but we really DO all go to the same school so if we steer her wrong we have to deal with it too. I typically have to make sure no body does anything stupid (unless it's me) because I'm pretty much one of the most experienced kids here at being stupid. My mom is great to me and yet I still don't always treat her like she should. When I see myself do that I mentally attack myself over it because I know what I'm doing is wrong. I'm not sure if you want to take a religious stand on this but that's what I'm thinking you're doing. I have always been told to obey your parents. That's where I got my "advice" for deedee. I'm not exactly wise, I'm just your average church boy who can't make a decision without his mommy.

Capt. over and out!

P.S.~ Yes, I am older than most of them... deeth by beebles is the only one of our little group that is older than me... 17 as of July 8, 2004
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Reply #28 from JoeUser Forums Top

most experienced kids here at being stupid.


*snort*

Reply #29 from JoeUser Forums Top
Yeah, you should always obey your parents. I might not be the best at it, but I try my hardest. And I really don't think it's right to call you mommy a name that is bad. I guess you could say that I'm your average church girl. I basically follow what God has told us to do. I know I don't do things perfect, but at times you'll have that.

~carebear~
Reply #30 from JoeUser Forums Top
*snort*


heh

~carebear~
Reply #31 from JoeUser Forums Top
heh...sorry guys, I'm not a church person.....but I am wise beyond my years as anyone who knows me would know....Brandon has some hidden wisdom....he just doesn't let it show often....

~Zoo
Reply #32 from JoeUser Forums Top
Thanks shuan... I think.

I learn from mistakes pretty well because I make 'em big enough to make empressions.

Capt. over and out!

P.S.~ What's up with the snort?
Reply #33 from JoeUser Forums Top
P.S.~ What's up with the snort?


The whole thing when you said about being stupid on here, well actually anywhere.

~carebear~

P.S.~ Dudette! You're going to have to thank us! Look how many point you're getting from this article!
Reply #34 from JoeUser Forums Top
a bunch (sic) high school Dr. Phil's telling a friend what they should do. My advice is...


What? You hate the "bunch (of) high school Dr. Phil's" but a mere ten words later you begin to give your own advice. We are all refreshed and challenged by your point of view.
Reply #35 from JoeUser Forums Top
Bravo, Andy, Bravo!

~Zoo
Reply #36 from JoeUser Forums Top
Thank you Andy!

~carebear~
Reply #37 from JoeUser Forums Top


you are an ass alan and i hope you are reading this you aren't the same person as any of us new before you left for college. You now go and get drunk and sleep with people you are a disgrace to the Band name. YOu can no longer be part of IT IS a BAnd thing EVER......!!!!!

tractor-chick
Reply #38 from JoeUser Forums Top
you are an ass alan and i hope you are reading this you aren't the same person as any of us new before you left for college. You now go and get drunk and sleep with people you are a disgrace to the Band name. YOu can no longer be part of IT IS a BAnd thing EVER......!!!!!

tractor-chick


You know, this isn't my fight, and I should probably stay out, but I'm getting good at butting in where I don't belong so I am going to add my two cents here--seeing as how I don't *know* any of you, take it for what it is worth.

For starters--I don't think you are doing much for "the band name" by calling people names and attacking someone on a public forum. In fact, I might contend that it is the height of immaturity.

But more importantly, when people go off to college, they change. It's inevitable, you aren't going to be a highschool student forever. Your perspective on the world shifts as you have more experiences and interact with a wider vareity of people and cultures. The college years are the height of exploration as well. People trying to figure out who they are, where they are, where they want to be and how to get there. Some times exploring means testing your beliefs and morals, challenging the status quo, abandoning the ways that you were taught and forging ways of your own. Yes, sometimes alcohol, sex and even drugs play into this exploration.

But it is when we are searching so hard to find out who we are that we need our friends the most. We need to spread our wings and establish our own identity, but we also need the assurance that should we fall we have a shoulder to cry on or a helping hand to bring us back to our feet.

Don't be so quick to judge your friend. Someday, the tide might shift, it might be you on the receiving end of that judgmental tongue-lashing. If you really think your friend has gone down the wrong path, your attack isn't coming to be the impetus for him to change directions. Try compassion next time. It works a heck of a lot better than venom.
Reply #39 from JoeUser Forums Top
Hey Shaun....you think we scared Angela away yet!?!

~carebear~
Reply #40 from JoeUser Forums Top
Well Stacey, way to jump on the Alan Hater Bandwagon. Granted, he shouldn't have done what he did (if I know most of the story), and I KNOW for a fact that he apologized profusely with MUCH humility. He realized his mistake and I'm sure he only wishes the best for Sam.

As for sleeping with people and getting drunk, there IS a bunk bed in his dorm so he sleeps in the same room as a "stranger" (assuming he sleeps, nocturnal bastard). And like shadesofgrey said, changing in college is inevitable. I sure hope I change when I get to college, I've changed with HIM in college.

As for the band name, there's plenty of diversity in the band; that's like saying he disgraced the "hairy college freshmen" name by shaving. There are soccer players, football players, cheerleaders, 4.0 students, FFA members (of which you are one), foreign language club members, and a plethora of other representations in the band. He won't fit in to every one, and I don't believe he wants to either.
Reply #41 from JoeUser Forums Top
Stacey, you need to catch up...as Andy said Alan did apologize and I think everyone's pretty much cool with eachother. No more anger, no more harsh words....Maybe next time we'll send you a newsletter....

Carebear-I believe we chased her off, embarrased her, or she genuinely forgot about the bullshit she dropped here....I don't care, though I'd like to hear some response...

~Zoo
Reply #42 from JoeUser Forums Top
I have concluded that my mom is ACTING like a stupid whore ass bitch.


My God!! Is that the language we use when we 'conclude' something about our mom!!
Anyway, I think she loves you anyway. maybe you need to speak to her about this incident and try to learn about what's in her mind.
Reply #43 from JoeUser Forums Top
Stacey, you need to catch up...as Andy said Alan did apologize and I think everyone's pretty much cool with eachother. No more anger, no more harsh words....Maybe next time we'll send you a newsletter....


I'm going to agree with Andy and Shaun. Sorry Stacey, but you shouldn't say these things about him. He did apologize to Sam, and to most all of us for what he did. Ok, I admit, I really used to be mad at him for a long time. But from talking to him for the last couple weeks on messenger, he's not that bad of a guy. You know, everyone makes mistakes. Nobodies perfect. Maybe you should get to know him better. I think you should apologize for saying that.

~carebear~
Reply #44 from JoeUser Forums Top
I punched a baby in anger once. In my defense, the baby was kind of being a dick.

*in-joke*