Straight skinny...no BS....no offense meant...
The menu and the house on the left side don't fit with the 'theme' of the site....meaning that granular gray background and the turquoise/teal mouseover on the menu buttons. That gap between the "Menu" menu and "Library" menu don't make sense to me. I think it should just be one continuous menu. For "uniformity" sake....the "Menu" menu has nice little side icons and the "Library" menu doesn't? I think also that the site title Dreamdesign3D should be larger.
Positives...your son is too cute! I really like the picture of him in the tie and I applaud you for letting people know how important your family is to you. Site colors (except that turquoise/teal thing) are a good choice too. Also since I don't know what the site looked like before maybe the menu and 'house' are part of the old design.
Hold the phone....I just clicked the 'Dink-n-Do' link (couldn't resist)...I guess granular gray and turquoise/teal mouseovers
were the old site look? So I would say you are heading in the right direction
....and again, I hope you don't mind my not p-footing around with too many niceties.