Remove Connection Queueing

Firstly, it doesn't work. How many times have I seen people stuck on "waiting"? Even there are cases where one person is attempting and the other is waiting. This is the worst case, because one person isn't attempting, the proxies will never kick in, and you flat out can't connect, even though there's nothing wrong with your connection, AND there's proxies to back that up.
Secondly, it's damn slow. When I joined a 4v4 in SupCom, I connected to all 7 other players, in about a second flat. In Demigod, there's always a lag time. Because I'm never attempting to connect to everyone, I always wait.
I think that this should just be removed from the game. It doesn't work, and even if it did, there's no reason that people should wait to connect.