Why am I still getting steamrolled unless I choose ONE specific strategy?
I've been playing many matches where I try to focus on a mix of technologies, just military, or just magic, and my factions' toughness (or whatever that number is in the upper-right corner) is always so low the other factions pick on me until they finally steamroll and kill me. I have tried spamming pioneers to create new cities, spamming pioneers to build outposts to capture resources, only settling on tiles with 8+ total resources, etc.
OK, so I figure I will focus only on Civilization technologies, and focus on growing my cities as quickly as possible. Most of the time, my cities' growth is restricted by food, so I find myself upgrading food production quite a bit in both my technology path and in the buildings I choose to place within each city.
This is the ONLY path in which my faction's toughness can meet or exceed the other factions'. Not only is this limitation not fun, but the times something crazy happens (like when The Butcher appeared out of nowhere) and one of my cities are destroyed, this cuts my toughness significantly and cause the steamrolling to continue all over again).
I had this issue all throughout WoM and all throughout beta. What am I doing wrong?
This occurs when playing on beginner or harder difficulties, but less-so on novice difficulty.