We need to straighten this out for the New Year!

Why. That is what I am asking.
You are using Joe User to make a person look like it was his entire fault.
But really you had a big part to. It is not just one person who fault it is for break-ups it is both or maybe it is nobody.

I am just going to come out and say it. Sam it isn’t all Alex’s fault for the break-up even thought he did break-up with. You keep saying he never loved you because he was able to just brush you off. That isn’t true.

Sam he loved you, the break-up was what he thought was best. I think God intended on it happening that way. Even thought it does hurt and he knows it would. He believes you two would be able to through it for the best. He knows something might have happened if you stated together, you know what it would be. The breakup just happened for the best.

You can’t blame one person for this whole thing that is just wrong. You can’t even say they didn’t love you.

You are making it so hard for me, you are both my friends and I love you both. And you are putting me into a situation that I don’t want to be in, but I am not going to have somebody say it is all one person fault when it is not, or say they never loved you.

I know he loved you, you could see in his eyes, but I can’t tell you why he broke-up up with you, all I can think of is the love that was between you to, even though there was a lot wasn’t strong enough to make it over the hill, which was coming up.

If I made you mad then sorry, but this is how I feel and I am not going to have it kept from you, because a true friend wouldn’t.

I know it is going to be hard but to blame and say that isn’t the best way to get over it. It is going to take time.

We need to sit down and talk and get this all straighten over. Hearts might be broken more but the only way to solve this and have no cracks or gaps is to find the right and not guessing on Why?

I hope this helps, and I am sorry that I made you mad yesterday but you needed to hear it, even if you didn’t want to.

Stacey
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Reply #1 Top
To Alex and Sam:
You two loved eachother, from what I've seen it was a good relationship. I may not know why or how this happened, perhaps I never will, but maybe this was destiny. Sometimes things just happen because there is a different path that you must follow in life, maybe you'll end up back together someday, maybe not...but don't turn sour towards one another, that never solves a thing, be open. Yes, it can hurt, but as with all things, time will ease the pain. My advice, talk, figure things out, and be done with the situation. No reason to prolong the pain. That is my advice...if you need a moderator, talk to me on MSN...I'm a counselor for hire(Okay, I don't charge anything...but seeing problems solved is a reward in itself...I keep the peace in 'La Famila')

Well, that about sums up what I can say for now until I figure out the rest of this....Goddamn power outage...

~Zoo
Reply #2 Top
This is probably something that would have been better dealt with in an email or a phone call, and not on a public forum. I speak this from personal experience, watching friends fall into huge fights over something someone posted on a blog. If you still want to use JU as a personal message board with your friends, I'd suggest using the blog group feature... it'll keep it semi-private enough for your needs.

The golden rule of posting online... never post anything you wouldn't mind your parents/friends/teachers/boss reading if they ever stumbled upon it. And never write about someone things you can't say to their face.

Just a piece of friendly advice

Happy New Year
Reply #3 Top
For the last time Stacey.... I KNOW IT WAS MY FAULT!!!!! The reason i said something on JU was because he wasnt responding to any of my emails.

From now on Stacey, stay out of my business. A real friend would have helped me, NOT DRILL IT IN MY FACE!!!!!!

Well, he's all yours now.

Samantha

Reply #4 Top
Ok, I'm really not going to get into this one. I'm afraid that I'm going to hurt someone if i say something wrong, well in which they take it wrong. But I've heard Sam say a million times that it was her fault. In fact, I've heard it all day from her. So I doubt she said it was her fault. and if alex wasn't emailing her back, which I'm not saying if he was or wasn't, then she had the right to address him on here. No offense but, by the looks of it, you might want to back off on the whole ordeal for now, until things calm down.

~carebear~