Belittling people who are innocent, and making them feel more of a failure than they already are, isn't nice either..

Yesterday I felt good for the first time since... the LAST time I was belittled .. not anymore.

 LOL All I did, was encourage scruf..

Tailsgirl thinks it's Toohey's time!

No its not nice at all....some like to try and offer help in a constructive way, others are a bit more blunt.

But to make fun of someones work is never helpful....especially for a new skinner trying to learn.

Belittling a person is not supposed to be allowed anyway...

Which is something that would need to be brought up in private, and please do not elude to accusations like this without backing them up.

k10w3:

I'm not going to discuss a specific issue, because nobody here except the parties involved have access to the complete "story", and the actions behind it.