I do not get very much lag, no matter how many units are on the map...
Not until I research either one of the orbital refinement techs, or a trader tech; resulting in those little ships flying around...
Once the trader/merchant/refinery ships start appearing on the map, then it starts getting all bogged down, and ONLY after those ships start appearing.
Its annoying as heck, so I don't research any of those unless I am close to winning cause I don't want them slowing things down for me.
I'm playing an the following...
Intel Core i5-2500K at 4.6ghz
8GB DDR3-1600
eVGA GTX 770 FTW 4GB
Plextor SSD
Win 7 Ultimate