Gypsy Davey...I'll try to answer a few questions, but I play very differently than you, so I can't answer everything. The elementium helps you build some VERY strong units later in the game. Just keep it on hand for now. You will find them helpful in making custom units. Lost libraries often show up in pairs, I have no idea why, but I do take advantage of them as soon as I can.
I play Elemental on a Gateway PC, but play most of my games on a MacBookPro using bootcamp, so I understand what you are doing. Bioshock I & II, Europa Universalis Complete, and Civ IV worked perfectly. This game is so erratic that I have tried to keep it on XP.
You can control a unit's exit from a city. Select the unit while in the city, then click on an exitspot. The space can be several spaces away. Using the city's exit screen allows no choice. This can be tedious late in the game if you have a lot of units in a city.
For Warg Kennels...did you go to the nearest city and select them as units to train? They will not show up automatically, you need to go to the city training screen to select them and build them.
Like you, I would like some unexpected events. GalCiv I & II had them and you had to be a good player to recover. It made for an interesting game.
I have been experimenting with v1.2. I was deep into a large map, just starting to feel that I was in control. I had conquered 4 of 9 AIs. Then the game froze. I could find no way to recover. After 10 minutes, I pulled the plug. Upon re-boot and re-launch into Elemental, I was told that Elemental had bad sectors and I had to run Scandisk. I did that, got the game to start, but all of my saves are lost.
I have had so many crashes in v1.1 and now 1.2, that I completely give up. I'll be back when 1.3 arrives.
The game has such potential that I hate to say goodbye. I have well over 350 hours invested. I have also had over 350 bugs, crashes, or freezes along the way. It is time to take a break.
I loved Oblivion. I bought the expansion packs of Knights of the Nine and Shivering Isles on eBay, not so long ago. Playing those expansions on an old familiar game (I never once had Bethesda's Morrowind or Oblivion crash) will keep me busy long after v 1.3 is out.