Point 1: Brad has already admitted on more than one occasion that he gets upset, annoyed and even angry as a result of negative comments and unhelpful complaints.
I am amazed at hearing this. The only thing I've ever seen remotely similar (and I've followed things here fairly closely) is what I quoted in my first reply to you (reply 77 in this thread) where he said "The only thing that really frustrates us (
and honestly is making my team less interested in reading the forums) [emphasis mine] are reading posts by people who don't have any idea what is involved in game development and thus have no concept of the kinds of things that take time or not."
I accept that your quote is true, as I have no reason to doubt you. It is, however, hard for me to comprehend that someone in that position and with that many years in this business and at his age (or what I imagine his age to be) would react to unhelpful comments as you describe.
Given your statement, and as brad is part of "SDers", I accept I was wrong regarding my point 1.
Point 2: (Copied & Pasted) As to the basis of your second point, I have to say firstly that the way you stated some of it is quite vague.
I'll try again -- it describes the best way to address things should SDers let unhelpful criticisms adversely affect their work. My suggestion is predicated upon the concept of 1) personal responsibility, and 2) what my dad used to say.
For the former -- personal responsibility is exemplified by saying "I got mad because of X" instead of saying "X made me mad". The former asserts that I am in charge of my emotions, not X. It affirms I am the one responsible for me, not X.
It applies because it's not the unhelpful criticizers that make brad mad, brad is the one who lets himself get mad.
Personal responsibility is a good thing because it means that when we have a problem, the solution is in our hands, not someone else's.
As to 2), as dad used to say "the less you expect from others the happier you'll be". Your trying to get unhelpful complainers to muzzle themselves is expecting something from them, violating the saying.
And yeah, addressing the SDers involves an expectation, but if an expectation is to be made, at least make it of the responsible party.
I'm not approaching the issue from a hypothetical point, but a real world point. The above is real world advice. As dad taught me, I don't expect you to take or, or to leave it.
...telling someone not to be annoyed, upset or angry because of personal responsibility is, to say the least, not likely to be effective.
Another thing dad taught me is that you can't tell folks anything. Best that can be done is set an example and let them figure it out or not, or just back off and do nothing and let them learn the School of Hard Knocks way.
Still, even tho it's "not likely to be effective" at least it addresses the responsible party (the one who's in charge of their emotions). That's significantly better than addressing the not-responsible parties as you do.
Regarding what sort of person an unhelpful complainer is, I think it's unfair and unrealistic to group them all into a single type.
Agreed. And that is why I used qualifiers in recognition of that, such as when I said "the unhelpful criticizers
are unlikely to cooperate with your request" instead of stating it as an absolute (such as "the unhelpful criticizers
won't cooperate with your request").
In summary, it is easier to convince someone to do nothing and benefit than it is to make someone not feel what they feel and not have their feelings influence their actions in any way, or cloud their thoughts or distract their minds.
I disagree with several things here.
First you're not trying to convince them to do nothing, you're trying to convince them to muzzle themselves. Muzzling themselves is an action -- expecting them to resist what they'd otherwise do.
Second, the benefit most of them seek is the cathartic release from complaining, getting it off their chests. That benefit is real and immediate. Your benefit is only a possibility not a certainty, and distant. Immediate and real > possible and distant.
Third, as I believe there's more unhelpful complainers than SDers working on Elemental (if I'm wrong then ignore this point) you're trying to get a relatively large number of people to change their behavior instead of relatively small number of people.
Fourth, is the personal responsibility point -- you're addressing the people who aren't responsible for the SDers letting the unhelpful criticism adversely affect them, instead of the people who are responsible (the SDers).
Fifth, I'm old. I'm not of the 'touchy-feely generation". If someone has a feeling that's harming them, they need to get rid of it, to face it and conquer it. Your attempt to get others to not trigger said harmful feelings only treats the symptom of the problem. Allowing unhelpful criticism to adversely affect one is the cause.
Lastly...the developers are still allocating time to review and respond to much of the negativity, and that is time that could be better spent.
If they're doing that then they need to stop letting themselves get distracted by the unimportant and get on with fixing the game.
Talk is cheap, actions count. The best way to silence unhelpful complainers is fix Elemental ASAP. The time for talk is past. Only results can now save the day.
All of the above is IMO, of course, and said from a position of incomplete knowledge, and subject to change if/when more info comes to light.
Ack, I think I may have exceeded the twitter limit... 