1:
To the best of my knowledge, no-- I wish it did
2:
To the best of my knowledge, no-- I wish it did. You can however, I believe, change the 'spawn' settings for things like planet perks and artifacts.
3:
Yes-- I believe the easiest way is to simply open the properties page of the planet you don't want anything around and uncheck "Use Default Planetary Template" [or something of that sort]
4:
Weighted means it's not a guarantee of a spawn of that type-- but will spawn it more often than not. Weighted colonizeable means there's strong chance it will be a colonizeable entity of some sort, but there is a minor chance, that it may not be.
These are my understandings of these four questions-- anyone who knows better than I, feel free to correct me 
Dr.Gonzo