In my situation, I love DG, and wanted my friends to love it too. But even with the 50% off coupon, nobody would buy it. I kept trying to get them to "wait, it will be fixed, just give it a little time". And they did, because it's Stardock. But every week they came over and tried the game, and have so many problems, I could see they were about to give up.
Then one of my friends finally got DoWII. My other friends saw that game, and, sadly, are going to get it too. I can't really blame then, since it has all the little goodies and extras I/we wish Demigod had from the start (not to metion, we've never had one problem connecting to any online games of DoWII). So, I have no real "amunition" to get them to wait any longer for DG to be fixed/improved, and now I get called "fanboy" by them if I try to get them to keep waiting.
But hopefully; people that did buy DG, and put it asside will come back to it after 1.1 and any extras they add to the game. And maybe people like my friends will give it a try later too, and the community will start to grow. I hope so.