This is a TL;DR type of post. Summary at the bottom.
So.
I'm not new to online gaming (I was there playing Warcraft 2 and Diablo when Battle.net launched). I love Sins. I pre-ordered Sins and played it pretty regularly when it came out. Dropped off for a while, but the past few weeks I've been playing again. I remember I tried one or two online games when Sins first shipped, but to get back into it I just played against the AI.
I came to the forums to try and figure out some of the strategies for online play so I don't completely noob my team into a loss. Unfortunately, the multiplayer forum is a complete wasteland of mostly useless information. After an hour of looking and reading, all I could find were technical support questions and the infamous player ranking lists.
As an old player recently trying to find online gameplay, I can tell you it's a terrible, terrible thing to have those lists. Instead of compiling lists of bad players and good players, why not compile lists of the strategies used by those good and bad players? Tips and hints? How best to get the economy going if I'm the economic player on a team? What should my expansion strategy be in a 3v3? How quickly do I need to worry about building the free capital ship? Should I invest in any military tech, or stick with civilian tech to increase my credit and resource rates?
Lists of bad players - especially the part about noob players - makes me much less likely to play online, considering online strategies are going to be totally different from single player games vs. the AI. It's not helpful, it's destructive to the community you're trying to build and it's going to do more harm than good.
Sure, spread the word about notorious players who don't work nicely with other team members. That's not what I'm complaining about. I'm angry I spent an hour here and I still have no frakkin' clue how to properly get my multiplayer empire started.
Edit: This thread - https://forums.sinsofasolarempire.com/308726 - in the Strategy forum is very useful as an overview and probably the best post for noobs on the entire forum. Still, it doesn't address the basics of working with a team and even the basics of how to start a game off on the right foot.
SUMMARY: Encourage players new to the multiplayer part of the game, like me, to learn strategies and methods so we aren't quite so terrible during our first outings into the online wilderness. Post instructions and tips. Encourage us with positive posts; don't discourage players with arbitrary, ego-inflating lists.