This isn't a problem for me in single player, but in MP I feel like I don't know what I'm doing.
I know, from experience with pretty much every other RTS game and from others on this board, that being aggressive is the best way to win.
This means sending in ships early and often to destroy a military lab here, a small batch of ships there, etc.
But whenever I try to be aggressive, I end up losing the ships I sent while doing little actual damage, sending too many ships and being helpless against, say, pirates, or even devoting too many resources early game to my fleet/research and being out of shape come the next hour (ie I have lots of LRF's and he's finishing his heavy cruiser fleet)
Anyway, any tips for me?
When is a good time to start harassing my opponents?
What kinds of ships do you use (what level of tech)?
Maybe I'm just completely wrong on this....